The Rundown on the Wet For Her Trans-Masc Sex Toys Bundle
- Excellent customer service
- Quality products for gender-affirming play
- Underwhelming packaging
Two queer people in a straight-presenting relationship have to get a little creative to live their truth. For some, that means choosing a poly life and finding partners outside your relationship (which works). But finding tools for gender play and exploration – that’s enriching in a different way.
That brought me and my partner to Wet For Her. Wet For Her is a for-us, by-us company that welcomes all sapphic-identifying folx – they do not truck with transphobia. They have a selection of trans-masc and trans-fem gear, with specially-priced bundles in each category.
WFH sells the bundle we chose under the Trans Masculine Gear category, but I’m not trans masc, and neither is my partner (a cis woman). We ordered this set to explore sex as a transfem (for me), and for her to indulge some gender fantasies of her own. Which just goes to show, toys are no more or less gendered than the people who use them.
Trans-Masc Bundle
Summary
Wet For Her’s trans-masc bundle includes a boxer shorts harness, a packer, and a Milo dildo. it’s a perfect starter set for gender-affirming play or exploration.
What’s In the Trans Masc Bundle?
In this bundle, you get:
- Boxer Black Underwear Strap-on Harness
- Packer by Wet For Her
- Milo Pack n Play Realistic Dildo with FTM Stroker Base
All of the items in the trans-masc sex toys bundle come in a variety of options. The harness boxers range in size from xs to 5x, with a very helpful (and accurate) size guide.
For the packer, you can choose from three sizes (S, M, and L, or 4”-6”) and three skin tones (vanilla, caramel, or chocolate).
The Milo dildo is 6.3 inches and comes in four colors: light beige, tan, espresso, and turquoise.
The packaging, I have to say, is hit or miss. The Milo dildo came in a sturdy cardboard box, and inside the box the toy was sealed in plastic. However, the packer’s box was much weaker cardboard that got crushed in transit (ouch). Fortunately, the packer’s stretchy, soft silicone wasn’t damaged.
I was most impressed with WFH’s customer service. First, they helped me correct an error in my order as soon as I emailed. Secondly, the shipment was unfortunately lost in transit. WFH noted the tracking problem themselves, contacted me, and sent out a replacement order immediately.
So How About Performance?
Let’s talk performance – the meat of any review!
My partner found the boxer underwear harness very comfortable and maneuverable – they fit like conventional boxers, but with a little extra reinforcement (and an o-ring, obviously). They’re also cut for people with curves. For gender affirmation or gender play, they fit the bill.
That’s also the case with the packer. It’s simple, made of soft silicone and quite realistic (everything but pubes!). It has heft and weight, and wearing it in the boxers scratched the itch my partner felt for masc play.
The Milo is quite a nice dildo. The Dual Density design makes it feel surprisingly like firm flesh, and the premium silicone has a skin-like texture (along with subtle veins). Again, choosing a color close to my partner’s skin tone really added to the illusion that it was her penis – a plus for both of us.
The stroker base is a great feature. Once my partner found the right positioning, the stroker enveloping her clit added another layer of stimulation that actually made the dildo feel like an extension of her body. Generally, she prefers that kind of manual stimulation over vibration, which can get numbing after a while.
The boxer harness does its job, keeping the dildo steady in a variety of positions. The Milo’s malleability means that we were able to move around and switch positions with minimal adjustment. Riding, spooning, ass to ass – we put it through its paces, and the Milo took it all.
Should I Buy the Trans Masc Bundle?
Wet For Her put together a great gender-affirming bundle. Whether you’re trans-masc or somewhere else on the grand spectrum of gender and sexuality, if you’re looking for a good started pack for gender-affirming play, Wet For Her has your back. And front. Bottom too.
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